Adult victims: Resources

Useful videos for victims/ survivors

• Unhealed relationship trauma
• 12 signs of healthy and unhealthy relationships 
• Trauma bonding 
• Narcissistic behaviour 
• Emotional neglect (not domestic abuse specific)
• Eggshells - a video on gaslighting and coercive control – older victims of abuse
• What I see - domestic abuse video
• Like love, a short play about domestic abuse

Downloadable documents

• Biderman’s Chart of Coercion (PDF, 119kb)
• DASH risk checklist for the identification of high risk cases of domestic abuse, stalking and honour based violence (PDF, 325kb)
• Individualised Safety and Support Plan (Word, 25kb)
• LGBT Power and Control Wheel (PNG, 534kb)
• My relationship , designed for printing (PDF, 73kb)
• Negative to positive thoughts, designed for printing (PDF, 445kb)
• Power and control wheel (PDF, 679kb)
• Power to Change programme (PDF, 3.5mb)
• Safety planning for victims living in abusive households in self-isolation – COVID-19 (PDF, 679kb)
• Self care ticklist, designed for printing (PDF, 165kb)
• Severity of Abuse Grid (PDF, 98kb)
• Toolkit for work with male victims of domestic abuse (PDF, 12.6mb)
• The Lotus Hub Information Poster
• The Lotus Hub Poster for the Community 

Useful links

• Domestic Abuse Intervention Programs: Wheel Gallery
• LGBTQ resources from Galop
• Surviving Economic Abuse: Resources
• Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) assessment, toolkit and guidance